Was just taking a break and wanted to post here
I found this website and started reading under the heading, "Creating Your own Reality." I happen to be at a pivotal point in my life with deciding what my degree will be, leaving my abusive boyfriend of ten years and effectively becoming a single mother of two young children, and I have met someone I love purely and truly. I've always been attracted to women but I come from a small Deep South Bible Belt community that looked down on any thoughts of being different, not just being gay. After reading creating my own reality, I completely understand why she and I are possibly not going to make it. I'm self destructive, my subconscious replaying negative, detrimental phrases that are ruining my self conscious thoughts of finally finding happiness. I'm a little frustrated because I have always heard that positive self talk could help with the negative thoughts, but after reading the article, it makes sense that my conscious mind utilizing the positive self talk only accounts for a small percentage and what's worse is the negative self talk happens and I'm not gen aware until I've lost something's not important again. So the article ended there......ahhhhhhh, what is a strategy that will work.
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